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To Not Fade Away – A Review

I’m so glad the producers of To Not Fade Away asked me to review their film. Otherwise I would never have seen it, since it is not offered on my DTV plan. In Denver this wonderful RLTV video can only be seen on Comcast Channel 205.

Both my mother and my father suffered from dementia. While neither of them had Alzheimer’s disease, a fear of this particular form of dementia looms large for me as for many in my generation.  The older I get the more unsettling small moments of forgetfulness become. I believe that having solid factual information about Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia is vitally important for all of us at this stage of life. And it is equally important for children and loved ones of the elderly to know much more about Alzheimer’s and dementia.

To Not Fade Away provides that kind of information. The film follows Marie through the first five years of her experience with early-onset Alzheimer’s as she moves from the initial troubling memory glitches to an eventual move to a care facility.

Interspersed among Marie’s experiences are interviews with a wide variety of researchers and other experts. We learn about diagnosing Alzheimer’s disease, the very latest in treatment and research, and what hope may be on the horizon.

No matter what your current situation, I highly recommend viewing this excellent film.  It can be seen this Friday, January 27 on RLTV.


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At the End of Caregiving

For every caregiver, the day will arrive when caregiving comes to an end.  Most of us can’t know when that day will come. Because of this, caregiving often seems endless, but it is not.

Some of us are able to accept that the end is coming sooner or later. The couple in this video are planning for the time when he will be gone, and she will be alone.  Senior co-housing is one option for companionship and support for the spouse that is left behind.

Weighing the Options from Our Future Selves on Vimeo.

 


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Caregiving and Technology

Years ago I could only use a yellow legal pad for my writing. If I didn’t have my yellow pad, I couldn’t write. Then a determined Bill coaxed me to try word processing. Now I love the ease of editing, the spellchecker and the way words flow from my fingers onto the page. I especially like Microsoft Word, a program that I always thought was too complicated for me until we started blogging.

Today, with my right hand encased in a stunning purple cast, I can’t use my cherished Microsoft Word. The best I can do is to hunt and peck enough to edit this.

And what is this?

I am “writing” this post via an iPad app called Dragon Dictation. Since I had joint replacement surgery on my hand almost two weeks ago, …

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Finding Meaning in Retirement

One of my first memories about retirement was when a rancher in my home town quit riding every day when he was 85 years old.  A year later he was dead.  My father talked about it as though the rancher’s retirement was a death warrant.  It shaped my attitude about retirement, in that there was something  vaguely morally wrong about stopping going to work every day.

I have been retired since March 2011 and have two jobs.  What is interesting about my attitude about retirement is  that I acquired it from my father who retired at age 65 and never worked  another day.  I really do not know how he  made the transition to retirement as he never in his life talked about his feelings.  I do know he made regular trips to …

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Caregiving Several Times Over

A quick update, Carol is recovering from her hand surgery with a cast on her right thumb and lower hand.  That cramps her writing quite a bit.  I am doing a fair amount of caregiving as she currently can’t drive or do tasks requiring two fully functioning hands.

I mentioned earlier that I was engaged in a job search to fill in during Four Mile’s slack season.  Winter just about brings activities to a complete halt at the Living History Park.  The wagon road is a complete sheet of ice, too dangerous for the beautiful Percheron and Belgian draft horses to pull the big prairie schooner.

I got a job!  I am a part time Health Care Security Officer with HSS Inc.  HSS is a large security firm providing security services to hospitals, city …

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