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Now What?

The Wheel of Desire

Upon retiring, I immediately went to work in a new job.  That job went into a slow period and I got another job.  In my last post I gave a lot of reasons for doing so, all perfectly valid.  There is, however, a problem.

I fill my life with lots of activities, work, caregiving, the daily household tasks, maintaining a healthy marriage, several hobbies, movies, raving about the silliness of politics, and so on.  The problem is that there is still time in my life to just sit.  That leads to what Ezra Bayda calls “The Anxious Quiver of Being”.  He is talking about the fundamental issue of life:  “What am I doing here?”.

We fill our lives with myriad things to avoid dealing with this question.  Addictions are …

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I’m Retired, Why Work?

Retirement Fear

Marti Weston (check out her blog) asked this question after reading my last post about my new job.  I like to think I lead something of an examined life, but I know I haven’t fully examined my motives for continuing to work after retiring at age 68.  The money is part of the equation, as Carol and I agreed before I retired that it would be best if we live on our income for a few years before we have to tap our retirement savings. In addition, I have a tendency to buy boy toys, so having some money for them is a bit of a goal.

What happened when I got my first post-retirement job is that I discovered a talent I did not know I had.  I simply love working …

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Finding Meaning in Retirement

One of my first memories about retirement was when a rancher in my home town quit riding every day when he was 85 years old.  A year later he was dead.  My father talked about it as though the rancher’s retirement was a death warrant.  It shaped my attitude about retirement, in that there was something  vaguely morally wrong about stopping going to work every day.

I have been retired since March 2011 and have two jobs.  What is interesting about my attitude about retirement is  that I acquired it from my father who retired at age 65 and never worked  another day.  I really do not know how he  made the transition to retirement as he never in his life talked about his feelings.  I do know he made regular trips to …

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Caregiving Several Times Over

A quick update, Carol is recovering from her hand surgery with a cast on her right thumb and lower hand.  That cramps her writing quite a bit.  I am doing a fair amount of caregiving as she currently can’t drive or do tasks requiring two fully functioning hands.

I mentioned earlier that I was engaged in a job search to fill in during Four Mile’s slack season.  Winter just about brings activities to a complete halt at the Living History Park.  The wagon road is a complete sheet of ice, too dangerous for the beautiful Percheron and Belgian draft horses to pull the big prairie schooner.

I got a job!  I am a part time Health Care Security Officer with HSS Inc.  HSS is a large security firm providing security services to hospitals, city …

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Caregiving, Surgery, And Health Care

 

Hand Surgery

Carol had hand surgery today.  She has been bothered by pain in her right hand for about ten years, so she finally mentioned it to her doctor.  The doc got some x-rays, said there is some arthritis in her wrist that was bone to bone, and surgery will fix it.

So, today after about four hours at a surgery center Carol is home with her hand and arm in a cast with a prescription for some pain medication.  All is well so far.  So what’s the big deal?  Something doesn’t work too well anymore, so get it fixed.  That is what we do as we get older.  I am doing it as well. I’m sitting here with my titanium knee.  My friend has a titanium knee as well, and his …

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