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What is Your Favorite Memory?

This is the time of year for resolute looking forward.  But as Janus, the Roman god that gives January its name, shows us, looking forward also involves looking back.  Our stories about those who are ill  and those who have left us are an important part of what we carry with us into the unknown ahead.

We all benefit from one-another’s stories.  Fortunately it’s not too late to enter the Your Favorite Memory Contest.  Here’s a chance to memorialize your family and win prizes.

 

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Caregivers Need Good Rx Info

One of the best things about being a caregiver blogger is our readers.  We get so much good information and feedback from all of you.  This is the time of year to pause and say:  Many thanks to you all!  We wish you and your loved ones all the best in the coming year.

Here’s just one good example of what I am talking about.  Recently Jason sent us a link to RxFind, a very comprehensive list of prescriptions drugs, drug interactions, side effects and whatever you want to know about your medicines and those of your aging parent.  In fact, they bill themselves as the “World’s Biggest Drug Database.”  I found the site convenient, informative and easy to use.  Click the hyperlink above and check it out yourself. Social Bookmarking

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Caregiving and Cleaning the Oven

The house still smells slightly of smoke this morning.  Bill and I were in the middle of paying bills yesterday when we decided to clean the oven.  I’m not sure why.  Maybe anything seemed preferable to tackling this month’s especially complicated credit card statement.

First there was an intensive search for the stove’s Use and Care Manual.  It seemed only to be expected that I could locate all the literature on every large appliance we own except the stove.  Eventually, after Bill found the stove’s model number, we tracked down the manual on line and printed it out.  The instructions were deceptively simple—close the door, push the “clean” button, set the time and the stove does all the rest.

Bill grabbed the oven shelves while I emptied the warming drawer and wiped out the …

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Mark Your Calendar for the AARP Family Caregiver Forum

Here is the link to sign on to the webcast on Dec 1 http://meta.media.qualitytech.com/m/wm/wlj-01/COMP008760SCH1_AARP_Caregiving_Forum.wvx    And here is a link to the current website describing the event http://www.aarp.org/relationships/caregiving/info-11-2011/Solutions-ForumThe-Challenges-of-Family-Caregiving-What-Needs-To-Be-Done.html  This is an important event for all caregivers who can participate.

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The Challenges of Family Caregiving: What Needs to Be Done?

9:00 AM-Noon

Thursday, December 1, 2011

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Prominent authors and experts discuss the difficulties faced by millions of family caregivers coping with our health and long-term services and supports (LTSS) systems. They will explore how public policies can more effectively address the needs of caregivers and provide insight on how health care professionals can improve support for family caregivers.  Audience participation is encouraged.

Speakers:

Susan Dentzer, Editor-in-Chief, Health Affairs (Moderator)

Susan Reinhard, RN, Ph.D., FAAN; …

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What is the Caregiver’s Role in an Aging Parent’s Death?

My dad, Frank, died over a year ago at the age of 91.  When he finally came to live in Denver two years before his death, I thought I would be able to help him have a better life, a happier old age.  It turned out that the real job was to support him while he moved closer and closer to death.

As the days of his life grew shorter, my confusion multiplied.  As much I knew he would die one day, I was caught up in Dad’s insistence that he would live to be “at least” 100.  I think it seemed easier to accept this idea than to understand that death was creeping nearer to us with every passing day.

The last days and weeks of Dad’s life were very difficult for all …

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